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8月30日 忆 钗头凤·红酥手 ——陆游 红酥手，黄滕酒，满城春色宫墙柳。东风恶，欢情薄。一杯愁绪，几年离索。错！错！错！ 春如旧，人空瘦，泪痕红溢鲛绡透，桃花落，闲池阁。山盟虽在，锦书难托。莫！莫！莫！
这是我非常喜欢的一首，也是我仅次于辛弃疾《青玉案--元夕》背的第二熟的一首,是陆游写给唐婉的，唐婉也回了一首。 看辞想到：有时候你最初得到的，是你最终失去的。
今天得知"大姐"有望下学期搬过来跟我一起住单间了,甚是高兴,也是因为她实在忍受不了屋里的那个很讨厌的人了,整条楼道里被喻为”臭虫”的人,只是可怜了剩下的小曦,也许她会搬到隔壁住吧~我们两个人终于又能住在一起了,她是真的闺密,外人始终无法理解我们为什么大学四年形影不离,我们就是那么搭调,今天电话里我们就激动了~嘿嘿,因为我们可以在一起放肆了,可以放肆的通宵看书,而不怕影响到有轻微响声就睡不着的小曦了,可以一起读诗,不用理会别人看怪物的眼光,她读她的顾城,席娟,我读我的唐诗宋辞元曲,翻了翻泛黄的<人间词话>,许久没有打开过了…记得中学一直十分喜欢诗的押韵,辞的长短节奏,无厘头的喜欢,仿佛可以体会到别人体会不到的美,可以闻到芬芳~高中我这个语文课代表,每次给老吴抱去大家的”抽屉文学”时,大伙也许不知道,老吴都摩拳擦掌的说,看五班学生的文章是享受啊~因为我们只写想写的,没有想写的可以不写.因为大家都真的是太有才了!!!记得小陈的”论世贸大楼的倒掉”,我拍手叫绝啊~一直喜欢你犀利又玩世不恭的写作风格,这是高一时的9.11.才女麦林静的”橘子红了”,这是周迅热播的电视剧,细腻的如江南水乡的雾气弥漫在脸上,很入味.再让我佩服的就是”鬼才”梁邦浩的”点绛唇”,我都忘了老吴这次让全班自选词牌填一首,我填的是啥了,但还记得他的,我的文章也是受老吴赏识的,她给我的评价是”小家碧玉”,我还不服,我说我明明是争取”大家闺秀”的,呵呵~我的”士之耽兮,尤可说也,女之耽兮,不可说也”,中间写到”娜拉出走了,奥菲丽亚疯了,死的死,疯的疯,秦香莲告死了丈夫又怎样?”这样的句子依然还萦绕在头脑中.还想起了世界杯时的一篇叫”王者重生---献给水兰色的意大利”,因为看到,当”飞火流星”划破球网的一瞬间,布冯失望的眼神,当蒙特拉的滑翔机折断了翅膀,只是觉得冥冥之中意大利是强者,但仅以强者自居是无济于事的，鼓励强者在下一个轮回里重生。没想到果真应验了：）还想起了，看世界杯那会，因为没有天线，电视总有雪花，刘超他们就去三友买了线，然后把线塞到一个易拉罐里，扔到窗外，一个自制天线，立刻画面就清楚了，真是太有才了。还有上课滋滋在我旁边拿着勺吃辣椒（坐第一排），我偷吃她每天自制的早餐，她从来都不生气，呵呵，我还把夹肉的面包里的肉吃掉，饼干专挑曲奇，哈哈哈～至于小陈就是我们一感冒，相互呼应的擤鼻涕啊，那此起彼伏的，全班皆侧目啊，还有中午就见你一人带个耳机，沏杯茶，坐那咯咯笑，后来才知道您那是听相声呢，呵呵，至于小琳，哎，一个纯洁的小孩就被我们这群“流氓”带坏了，做“生物优化”时，您总是问这鸡怎么阉割啊，是不是男人也有输尿管啊这类问题，还有"结扎"问题,我们都无语，好象都是我们小学研究的问题，最经典一次莫过于你大叫“奥！我终于知道SB是什么了，就是性虐”立刻轰笑啊,你真是太可爱了~ 想起那次“傻阿贵”的政治课付兴，马晨，牟小琳的“避孕套事件”，简直笑疯了，阿贵站在讲台上也快疯了估计(恩,阿贵,小头爸爸的外号还是我起的呢,呵呵,高一第一节课,就一直觉得他特像一个什么东西,想了半天就是活脱脱一小头爸爸啊,绝对的印象派.)~现在想起来还是觉得马晨当时的回答太有才了~好象是大家分坐在教室两头，付兴跟小琳要书签吧，马晨小子犯坏，跟小琳这乖孩子说：付兴跟你要避孕套。小琳当然说：没有。马晨遂传话说：没有。付兴急了说：就在你那，我刚才刚给你的！此样一来二去，中间的我们已然笑疯了，然后阿贵此时突然叫起马晨说：你们这都笑什么呢，也给大家说说，让大家都乐乐！立刻鸦雀无声，大家估计都在想他要怎么说，不过我们还是对他有信心对这种状况能化险为夷的，他不紧不慢的说：老师，是这样的，付兴刚刚跟牟小琳借塑料带，小琳说没有，付兴就说，没有的话气球也行！顿时，我们笑的眼泪都出来了，阿贵一头雾水啊~哈哈哈 不过我们和这群老师也是故事不断啊,但咱们都挺会做人,把他们哄的一乐一乐的,即使心里疑义大了,呵呵,每次你们把老吴气走了,班里一片寂静后,班长就说:关丞,快去找找吴老师吧.不过老吴就是小孩脾气,我每次去办公室,看见全组的语文老师笑呵呵的看着我,知道我又来哄了,仿佛这是我的拿手好戏.不过,我确实得先分析她是处在生气的哪个阶段,否则我就死了,只有过一次我刚开始要说话,被她劈头盖脸骂了一顿,她痛快了说,不是针对你啊.哎,我招谁惹谁了,不过,通常情况是,老吴最终美不滋儿的说,这五班的孩子就是会哄人J走,回去上课.我容易吗,还有印象的就是,那会作业是留的太多了,我就记得除了书上学的那些外,咱们天天翻译古文,都快把史记,汉书什么的翻译遍了,恨不得每天作业一根笔啊. 咱们每年教师节送他们的礼物也是各异啊,”精心挑选”啊~咱们是连迎合带讽刺啊,哈哈,教语文的我老板是绝对的”品味型”,我们送的造型蜡烛,教英语的Susan勉强算是”时尚型”吧,一比我们大6岁的二外女,送的一排刻有其名字的耳钉,教物理的是个”实惠型”的,我们给的是洗衣粉这种劳保用品,教生物的是个gay,我们送的是”女人型”礼物,小梳子+小镜子,护手霜+香水,对,给女生教体育的是个村妇,典型的”俗气型”我们送了个大绿色的超切的头花,特夸张那种,她巨美的天天带啊,我们觉得很有”成就感”啊,哈哈哈…有才~
突然回忆起原来的事，觉得还是很珍贵，不知道大家是否都还记得这些，我们就是这么一群有才的人呢：） 8月28日 ~~~想过无数次分开的镜头,因为知道迟早都会有这一天,还是情不自禁了,但总不会想到会是这样的一个场面. 以为可以把自己放倒,然后一觉到天亮,但还是在半夜两点在床上翻来覆去. 只是口红还留在你的肩膀,只是带着你的味道的纸巾还攥在我的手心里. 想给自己一个理由痛恨你,这样才能彻底忘了你,怎么也恨不起来,只能痛恨自己,不是你的那杯茶. 我用自己最美好的一段生命验证了自己的一个错误,前一段是搭建起一个美丽的海市蜃楼,后一段是无谓的坚持和执迷不悟,然后狠狠的摔在地上,一个决绝的方式也许是适合我的.只是不知道这一切的幻想是谁给我的~都谁该为今天的局面负责,但买单的只有我一个人. 我也终于从你的口中听到了那个我一直都知道,又不想听到的答案.我是你的谁. 没关系,我会很好的处理自己的,因为我有的是各种各样的失败的经验 我妈说过我这个人最大的优点就是不会在同一个地方跌倒两次,当然也得看跌的是不是很痛,初中那次是,这次也是,该流的眼泪都已经流尽了,无数次,但昨天是最后一次. 习惯了自己处理自己的任何问题,也是这么一路摸爬滚打走过来的,心死的感觉其实很好,比心痛好,这样才能真正长出个新的. 这下也好,我会悠着点“作”了,至少很久之内没力气再“作”了，还有很多事等着做，开学后会异常无比的忙，我是一个典型的情场失意，赌场得意的人，呵呵，因为我把跟别人较劲的劲儿都转嫁到自己这了，就说不好会干出什么比较奇迹的事，总之，憋着的一口气总得找一个释放的渠道，这个我有经验：） 平时总是弱智的删了电话号码又添回来，傻笑ing，把这人删了还差不多J 晚上可以见到滋滋，两个变了头型的女人去赛特吃饭加血拼~ 8月26日 I got a perm~~maybe exactly a wave仿佛一切改变都在最不经意间开始,生活就是这么不可琢磨,昨天还唧唧歪歪,今天就另一番景象了,我要转运喽~~嘻嘻~~把小开心传给大家,接住~~你感觉到了吗~ 对于烫完头的评价是:背后挺性感---指烫的头发J 正面依然是Miss Bean的脸,没办法啊,娃娃脸,从小到大没变过呢. 恩,改变形象真的让人愉悦不少,下次低落了考虑也去烫个<恐龙特级可赛号>里哞利的头型,啊~是吧小于~我小时侯忒喜欢看的一玩意儿~后来新的也叫<奥特曼>嘿嘿 瞎折腾了一个假期,准备收拾东西回学校了,觉得自己已经自动更新了.烫发的时候,因为发质好,可能软化的过程就会比别人长一点点,搞了仨个多钟头,小于说:你这蜕变的过程还真长~是啊,那一刻觉得自己一段时间以来像西伯利亚的蝴蝶,经过最寒冷的冬天,又重生了~ 不过这为美还真是辛苦一点,用的陶瓷的,一头顶了十几个卷, 是又沉又烫啊,得有几斤~沉的我是脑袋晃晃悠悠,卷的时候是脖子僵直,卷完了就容易仰过去,不过,还是,开心~~~ 不过，以后每天打理还是让我心虚，我一懒人，经常顶着“脑积水*”的风险晚上洗头：）~恐怕头发早晚得成“饼饼”，那个很像Rain的韩国理发师后来说了一大堆，本来被翻译过来意思就不太完整了，哎~反正我现在已经想不起来什么了~总之，就是没事手就要不停的卷头发，卷啊卷，卷啊卷~ 托某人吉言，我快乐，我幸福~改变就是开始，还有调整一点点很难说是什么东西的东西啦，是一种be nice的感觉，是flavor，这些都不为任何人，只为我自己，因为我才发现我还是个小朋友，还是会做好多幼稚的事，要变成理想的“熟女”还有好长的路要走，我始终认为这是和事业，学业并行成长的另一条蔓藤，像寻找一个适合自己的职业一样，寻找一个喜欢的自己，和一种气质，从中学来我在尝试追求一种女人的强势，做的快有模有样了~也发现了好多的问题和不适，继续调整和打磨，也给自己一个更舒服更欣赏，更像自己的自己。我始终相信自己可以变成自己想变成的人，就像我还很相信never late than ever一样，我也不知道为什么那么坚信，无厘头的坚信，信的还很开心，很奇怪，但我还是把后者归为一种最原始最基本的乐观，就像我时常想如果80岁才发现最喜欢的学科，那就去学校里再读，即使死前一天碰见了爱的人也不晚一样，呵呵呵，又开始胡想八想了~就说这么多，其实刚才脑子里挤了一堆东西，就是太跳跃，等敲到了，又没了~呵呵
注解： *“脑积水”---是宿舍里，常指长发mm熄灯前洗头，懒得吹（当然用吹风机这种“大功率”的家伙宿舍必然会跳闸）~懒得擦~无法等到头发干透，倒头就睡所造成的严重后果~ 8月24日 一块糖果昨天很晚的时候看了一个节目,讲关于儿童心理教育的,看的不全,只是一个心理医生说的那个延后享受的一块糖的实验让我想到了一点什么,早已经不是第一次听这个实验了,第一次听记得很清楚是初一,上那种心理卫生之类的课,那时侯就很不解,很鄙视那些去拿那一块糖的小朋友,心里总悻悻的想为什么没让我这种有定力的小朋友去做实验,结果就一定不是德国人第一,中国人最差了~总之节目好象就是说中国的孩子从小就缺乏对于坚持原则,和延后享受的教育,我不以为然了10年,也就再没深想过,仿佛是个不争的事实~至少是对自己这样的小朋友,这是很容易做到的,但是十年后,一块糖果变成了一次可以展示自己的比赛,一个喜欢的男生,一段不该休息时间的休息……自己明知道只要忍耐一下,一块糖果就可以变成两块,可就是越大越算不过账来,想要的就立刻要拿到,是太放纵自己了……不要有这种:至少我在我最想要的时候吃到了那一个糖果的投机想法,也许后面那一颗才是你真正想要的幸福和成功,每每要起身迈出脚,将手伸向那个糖果,也明知道自己是在透支自己未来的幸福和成功时,就不要给自己贯以所谓洒脱不羁的率性和飞蛾扑火的大无畏了,是愚蠢,然后,狠狠的打一下自己的手,告诉自己:忍一时风平浪静,退一步海阔天空~~ 人生是需要蕴藉的...... 8月22日 问问自己:查学科的前沿方向和自己喜欢擅长的方向真是不容易，看各种各样的国外网站，看的眼睛都快瞎了，继续学，有太多的发展方向，问题是都大相径庭，方向不同接下来准备的也不同,一面可以去森林里与大猩猩们为舞，过我想要的出世生活，珍妮古道尔也曾经是我的偶像呢！（太理想了...）另一面可以做新兴的环保产业，在国内几乎还是未开垦的土地，比如CDM, 涉及借贷，融资，项目管理等等啊，看起来要会的真多，还有在NGO的这种独立第三方的感觉很好，和无与伦比的社会效益让自己觉得很有价值，（当然这个最现实）。还有工程方向，打死我也再不想厥在那没日没夜的画图纸看图纸了，我的CAD学的也着实不太好...想三视图很头疼呢 问别人:总之，要非常深入的学习和补课了，真是书到用时方恨少，不过咱学这个的朋友多啊，嘿嘿嘿，问Monkey:我看什么可以系统的学习一下融资这些金融的东西？这回不是看本“聚财”能解决的问题的了。我学了就可以更好的加入你的项目讨论了:) 问Warren: 看啥可以系统深入了解项目管理？最好也能速成一点.潘同学，学广告的学这些吗，也给点意见
8月19日 七月七日晴今天是七夕，虽然暂时身边还没有合拍的人，说些合拍的话总是可以的吧，这种日子一般还是窝在家里比较好，省得看见大街上的腻腻歪歪的红男绿女心里添堵，看看我搜罗的真理一箩筐之男女篇吧：）外加我的批注，呵呵 1．如果你只是他的“好感”之一，但不是唯一。就不要强求出双入对，你俩成双成对的出入，万一碰见他的另外一个“好感” 不是挺麻烦吗？你如果能接受，就把他也当成你的好感之一吧；如果不，就离开吧。-----想想是这么个理儿，都是一念之间啊！ 2．出轨有两个定义：在宽容女人那里，“心未动，身已远”不算出轨；在一般女人那里，身未动，心远一下也就算了。-----我，绝对的宽容女人啊，就是不知道会不会有这样的宽容男人同样理解我：） 3. 女孩子只要问“该选谁”，就说明她其实哪个都不太中意。好女孩就会寂寞地等待真爱；而坏女孩会兴高采烈地跟不中意的男人打情骂悄，该玩就玩，该吃就吃，该睡就睡。真爱来了好好过，真爱不来也过得不错。你是好女孩还是坏女孩呢？-----傻子都应该知道应该选第二种吧！ 4. 想做妖精的女人：是不是妖精一般是DNA决定的，不是后天练得出来的。没有妖精DNA而追求妖精经历很简单，去练习一下瑜伽、舞蹈什么的，立刻就知道很多妖精动作，身子骨就立刻软了，就有了妖精形象了。有了妖精形象一般就可以有妖精生活，妖精体验，不一定非要妖精DNA。但是有了妖精生活，你肯定会有妖精麻烦，而你是个假妖精，不会用妖精方式去处理妖精麻烦，那你可就要露原形喽。-----那我完了，这阵一直走妖精路线来着，瑜伽、舞蹈都练了，所以说，想跳钢管舞也不是人人都行的！ 5. 男人总认为女人是傻子，不去用心了解，而去用力哄，其实男人才是傻子。-----恩，虽说有的男人是例外吧，但看最后一句还是满解气的，哈哈哈：） 6. 这期时尚，其中有篇文章，觉得很有趣，和大家分享一下，同道者同乐。太喜欢的男人不能碰，怕爱上；太不喜欢的男人不能碰，没感觉；同事不能碰，饭碗更重要；同学不能碰，万一露馅儿以后还怎么参加同学聚会；已婚男人不能碰，太麻烦；闺蜜男人不能碰，多个朋友少个敌人；陌生男人不能碰，安全更重要。-----值得深思，除了这些男人，这世界上还有别的男人吗？ 7. 如果他不想跟你成家，但是这不是说他对你没感情，没感觉。如果女人学会不去左右一段情感，不非要有什么结果，就能变得让人更好接触了。-----其实不太懂，感情怎么能这么卑微，宁愿不要 应和7这个数字吧，就说这么多，望我那些有另一半的狐朋狗友们今天过的愉快
8月18日 闲言碎语大关的新车红的好扎眼呀,叫什么来着，CIVIC？完全不懂，不过她的就是我的啦，我要学车！反正是自动档，巡航定位什么的，应该专门给傻瓜开的，在想什么时候才能有自己的车呢，一定不远了！在＂小新的店＂里吃蛋糕时，大关说到要结婚时我还是满有感触的，觉得她怎么说嫁就嫁了，真快啊，也许真是选对了，说嫁就嫁了，真是说时迟那时快啊，这要过不了多久再给我添个大侄儿，就太吓人了！我可不想当姑姑呢，我还没在家当够“小崽儿”呢，“小”的地位决不能被动摇！不过，我还是想参加一次婚礼，想好久了，当次伴娘什么的，想想都开心啊，怎么说的好象自己结婚似的，嘿嘿嘿，我一直想可以给别人当三次伴娘（多了自己就该嫁不出去了），大家可以提前预定啊，暂时想可以给大关当一次（如果她不再叫我Ms Bean!），给牟小猪当一次（这家伙一定比我结婚早，到时我一定低调，一定不抢新娘风头！），剩下的一次暂时待定。
昨天给赵叔饯行还是满开心呢，发现赵博士的思维方式还真是满特别的，不同凡响！呵呵，尤其是买东西方面，明年我买数码产品就等你回来啦，恩，努力找个法国妞儿啊！高鹏同学工作了还真不太一样了，等我有钱了找你买基金吧！ 准备好明天盛装给小陈的比赛加油去，这小子说那些男选手旁边都是美女，能有我这种两肋插刀的朋友假装你的女Fans，做人一定要知足啊，不过，还是希望你明天能嬴，打到纽约的国冠去！ 8月16日 终于找到这首<两个世界>了原来晴晴哭时的背景音乐就是小武--Terry胡清蓝的这首<两个世界>,好听啊！
Monkey今天飞去米国，be safe & sound!
赵叔大大后天飞去法国，祝大家都找到自己想要的  8月14日 practise348 issue 加篇＂一休＂高频 Who create the history, peoples or the famous few? When we thumb over the pages of history text book, flow of heroes and celebrities' name come into our eyes. The famous few attracted the attention may be exemplary and laudable a thing as it happened, however, the common also deserve our focus. We cannot imagine Chairman Mao can win the anti-Japanese war without thousands and hundreds of soldiers' sacrifice. We cannot imagine the Da vinci's painting earned the best reward without the appreciation by so many artists even the ordinary people. We also cannot imagine Apollo could get rid out the gravity to the space without the assiduous made by the generation one after the other. So, it is not wise to give our applause just to the eminent, nor justice.
Admittedly, the prominent few impact the history considerably. They demonstrated their ability to speed up the procedure of development or manifested the outstanding gift that transcend over the other and bring about the brilliant outcome. Under the leadership of Mao, the road to the victory for Chinese people was not vague and the aggrandizement of the people displayed during even after the war curved in the history. Da vinci's aesthetic achievement definitely shined beyond the artist circle and instructed a gateway to another beauty world for offspring. Space navigation workers in Apollo represented the human's talent and courage to challenge the space. The passage in the reading books narrated the story of the elites, while we should be aware of there were groups of peoples whose identities had already been forgotten.
In fact, history development had been decided by the desire of society, comprised by the majority. So many revolution story professed to us that the real need of survive and basic rights for the ordinary served as the key reason of the battle. Thirsty for appreciation among the community foster the creation and the same time, the artist. Second, every hero should appreciate that the history condition presented them the stage to show their talent and capacity, so, to some degree, the hero were the product of the process, not the primitive motivation of the improvement. Numerous experiments had been done and untold failure had been encountered by previous unsuccessful men, all of which pave the way for the hero’s accomplishment.
Scrutinized the process of history, we are informed that as a historian, not only the famous few, but also the groups deserved our eyeballs who were the real promoter for the development. Profound research of the grass-root would deepen our understanding of the essence of the world and badly needed now. One skill needed to be successful in the world today *Silence for the sake of avoiding one’s emotion may be highly laudable and exemplary a thing as it is held to be by the Chinese thousand years. My objection to it is that nowadays the communication skill applied to our daily life and work field, which is contrary to the principle that silence is always the gold, is more badly needed to succeed in our era.
*Communication is essential in the family relation. Except some such relations as twins may share the same sense and feeling sometimes based on the gene resource, the other family members tend to be independent beings, say couples, parents and children, who make difference with each other in thinking, behaving, pine for communication to live a harmonious life together. If a pair of couples would reconcile a fraction of trifles, the trifles had not to grow like a snowball lead to divorce; if the mother-in-law were sincerity to exchange opinion with the daughter-in-law, there would not be so many quarrels between them; if the parents were able to learn what their kids are seeking for, there would not be so many problem teenagers, so many juvenile delinquency, so many pregnant but unmarried young girls in desperation. For a family, communication acts as a key ingredient that an unhappy one may never be aware of.
*One the other hand, in the work field is communication attached great importance. The efficiency which any firm is expected for, and any employee earns by, has been built up upon the skillful communication in the product chain. A direction passed down from the high-level to the end, more often than not, afflict abbreviation and misunderstanding in that it is hard enough to encipher one’s idea into a language by the speaker, accepted by another ear, if at all, and, at the same time to decipher into their own view; once the employee receive the instruction, it’s productivity then, depends on the flow of information smooth or not, in the colleague pool.
*Communication may tough, but efficiency. Its seemly time-consuming process makes thing progress swift and member’s relation closer. By sacrifice the “golden principle”, we may avoid untold family tragedies and business loss in advance. 昨天，做了想做的事，但做的时候就后悔了，人说：３０岁前做事不犹豫，３０岁后做事不后悔，我既犹豫也后悔了，可以吗，杨澜的blog里说：年轻最大的优势就是可以犯错，可问题是我不知道怎么是对，怎么是错，更是一团糟了,totally mass... practise2回答Frances的质疑,这当然不是G的,是T的,当然再深刻一点,再多100字,组织的少一些机械感就可以当G的了. 加篇argument 167 argument In this argument the author concludes that the folk remedy, a plant -based medicine has an effect on treat insomnia. To support this claim, the author cites the experiment between a common sleeping medicine and lavender-scented pillows as a proof. Careful examination of the facts, however, reveals that none of them lend credible support to the claim.
A threshold problem with this argument involves that the experiment they took violate the golden experiment rule that equal comparison principle, which means we need two same sample groups under the same condition to compare with each other. Yet, the fact above is that they only utilize one team to check out the function of both two medicines, even without intermission. This unprofessional evidence renders its result unconvincing as it stands totally.
Secondly, close scrutiny of the evidence reveals several flaws. The time order of the test of the medicine deserve our skeptics because, perhaps after lasting two weeks insomnia problem, the tester have already been tired enough, then the quality of sleep increase naturally, which has nothing to do with the lavender-scented pillows. Or perhaps the tester, at the beginning of the examination, could not adapt to the bed or the sleeping condition, a controlled and monitored room, but two weeks later, their getting along with the accommodation helps easy falling asleep. Without rule out these alternatives, the author could not substantiate the evidence to support the final conclusion.
Thirdly, the argument indicates the 30 chronic insomnia volunteers get reversed when use the pillow. Accordingly, the argument rests on the assumption that the folk remedy would effect to all the people. Yet, we are not informed full information about other patients and how well the data is representative enough to reflect the general situation as a whole. It is entirely possible that volunteers are just senior citizens who are suffering from insomnia by the life course of nature, which totally different from the young generation. Thus without offering the physical index and various sample, it is hard to assess the evaluation of the result.
In conclusion, the argument is not persuasive .To bolster it the author must provide clear evidence, a scientific experiment and a considerate pool of the sample. Such evidence might conclude: a group volunteers with their moderate doze of sleeping medicine and the ones with the pillow, under the same condition, at the same time involve in the test; the sample volunteers should range from young to old, who possess various life pressure, physical condition and life habit.
Should people sometimes do things that they do not enjoy doing? *Living in such a multifaceted world means that no one could trail our interest all the time. Doing things that we do not enjoy, sometimes, is inevitable and indispensable.
*Acting on the life pressure, responsibility, whole conditional conception and some other factors external, it is unavoidable to hold oneself into doing something not intriguing. Taken my father as an instance, he had to relinquish his career as an engineer for a power station in a remote city many years ago, and returned to Beijing where I studied in, as an administrator in an office, which completely divert from his occupation direction, on account of father’s duty, who then alleviated the life stress my mother resumed alone previously, as well as consolidated a long-term vision of cultivation a child that consist both money and emotion investment. His responsibility and vision let it occur never, his daughter raised up without father’s love around.
*On the other hand as to the issue, life’ s meaning lies in not only doing what you like, but in doing what you do not enjoy so much, yet valuable, said an axiom. Such thing undertake the mission of acting as a whetstone to sharp the human willingness, tolerate, and skills how to get along with it, which are indispensable in the individual advance procedure. When leaning some preset subject such not quite prevailing nor simple, but fundamental indeed as math and chemistry in middle school, students are required to sense that showing the internal spirit of willingness, courage, and industrious is the very way to out of the eddy in the life river.
* Life never remains a peaceful lake without twist and turns, so, to resolute rationally with full-consideration, and to overcome the human weakness deliberately demonstrate the maturity of a man rather than to comply entirely with one’s owe heart childishly. 8月13日 practise看到Monkey说英文习作,就翻出了自己的,从来不敢发到gter那种地方被拍,搁在自己这自娱自乐一下
Why is music so important to many people? *“Living with a wish, you can dance without music”, said an old saying. Yet my objection to it is that without music, hardly anyone of us, probably, except for the deaf, could enjoy the dance of life, because music, actually inspire the genuine promising future. It lights on our talent, soothes our desperation and is the gateway to another amazing world full of hope and a brilliant road.
*Music seems not excluded to the artist only, so, important to any of us. From the very beginning of life, music has already shown its power to light on talent. It is now suggested, by the doctor, that the pregnant woman would better sink into the soft music, which offers the baby a better development of brain and spurs the potential ability in its future. Also all the human being just like the single baby, draw the nutrition and inspiration from music, of whom, artists are the representative. Paints depict the spring water from a brisk rhythm; poets let the words flow out of the pen point after appreciation a piece of blues; dancers swirl to the minute as they back to the ancient court celebration.
*Great music serves as the medicine to cure the injury, and pacify the hurt soul. Sonnet between you and the composer told you that you are never alone when you faced with trouble and the disappointed, then cheered you up to go ahead, to fight against with the hardness full of hope. So, that is why recent some of the psychology clinic utilize the music treatment to cure the patients, of course, with a positive effect.
*To all human beings, rhythm, sound like the footstep, and note, like the footprint, lead the way to a flourishing life contained with joys and sorrows, twist and turns, as well as love and hatred. Music takes note of the history and our daily life now, which is going to be another history in the future, to that degree, music is the salt of the world. 8月11日 无题今天是一个朋友的生日,我开始还会记错他的生日, 真是丢脸
 ,决定放下一些东西以后人就会变的轻松不少,这是个rational decision，我不能认真，更不能不认真.无论如何,祝他生日快乐,也许他根本看不到我的space,whatever 一会儿和老姐们去看Harry Potter，昨晚到了电影院居然没票，太疯狂！
看回来了,没有想象的好看  ,但买了双热风的鞋,很开心也很喜欢,谢谢大关哦,嘻嘻嘻 德朗的微笑，海子，西川...从明天起, 做一个幸福的人 喂马, 劈柴, 周游世界 从明天起, 关心粮食和蔬菜 我有一所房子, 面朝大海, 春暖花开 从明天起, 和每一个亲人通信 告诉他们我的幸福 那幸福的闪电告诉我的 我将告诉每一个人 给每一条河每一座山取一个温暖的名字 陌生人, 我也为你祝福 愿你有一个灿烂的前程 愿你有情人终成眷属 愿你在尘世获得幸福 而我只愿面朝大海, 春暖花开 听着dolannes melody，像得了心快症一样开心，在每次许久阔别音乐后，黑白琴键的第一次跳跃和传达出的圆润的水滴一样的音符让我不可名状的欣喜，远去的知性，品味，灵感仿佛不可琢磨又走进我了，在选择学工科后，强大的理性与感性矛盾的撕扯和绞杀下，我想放弃感性了，不想丢失的却是我十分在乎的感受力，我是个生活在各种各样矛盾中的人，矛盾来自心里，因为解决不了调和不了，就会活的非常痛苦，难以自处，于是斩断了对于生活的触角，庸俗和麻木彻底席卷了我，以为可以不被这种玄虚的问题所扰，yet,that's not always the case，现在只是想说，我喜欢这种痛，至少证明我还醒着，还思考着，精神依然还可以凌然高远，还配的上我那些朋友们，足以让他们精神愉快，我努力，即使在＜失明的城市中＞也做那个看得见的医生：） 8月9日 十分爱刚刚看了一部港片,叫<十分爱>,一个朋友空间里的推荐,心里像打翻了五味瓶,情节很跌宕(也许你会说chick film),重要的是你能找到自己的影子,故事里到处都是障眼法,看见的不一定是事实,事实不一定那么凑巧让你看见,相信与怀疑,失去与珍惜,种种混合在一起,不相信爱的人必得不到真爱,"作"的下场必定竹篮打水一场空,我发誓都是真理,结尾看了三遍,第一遍是心里的落差,第二遍是淡淡的释怀,第三遍是觉得该相信点什么,弱水三千,只取一瓢,I need to stop dicking around...不知道双子座是不是都这么变化无常,变化的会让自己手足无措 |
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